The Tale of Suzie, Continued

[tspencer227]

I just got home from work a few minutes ago and gave her a call- she picked up after a few rings..found out she's been sick for the last couple of days, and then I asked her about this past weekend:

"So why didn't you tell me you were going to be in Virginia Beach this weekend?"

"Well, we just sorta decided and left..."

"I tried calling Sandra's cell phone on Saturday to talk to you, but nobody, answered-"

"oh, she lost it a couple of weeks ago."

"oh.....well I really would have liked to see you....I don't know if it's just me, but I've been kind of getting the feeling the last couple of weeks that maybe you don't want to talk to me, or are mad at me for something, so what's up?"

"-click-"

OK, I have no idea what this means, but she's not answering her phone now....... I'm just really confused about a lot of things- everything seemed to be going wonderfully, and now it's like I've run headlong into a brick wall....I barely slept last night because I was so confused and a bit hurt, and now.....I don't know. Except that there's a bottle of Captain Morgan in the living room, a case of coke in the fridge, and they're both starting to look really good.

Comments

[amsalliecat.livejournal.com]

Ever how hard this is to do, I find the best thing in these situations is to stop trying to talk to the person. More often than not, given time, they will call back and talk to you again, and if she doesn't, well, you'll get over her eventually. If she doesn't care about you enough to at least call and explain what's up, then she doesn't deserve you anyway.

Sorry that you're having a rough time, I hope this helps at least a little.

[trashbag.livejournal.com]

I like Suzie, but I agree, you need to cut her off. Can we say "toxic (girl)friend"?

And the Sea shall grant each man new hope

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sure you remember my toxic bit of New Jersey, Ted. She tore me up for too long, don't let it happen to you. Eerily similar circumstances being described. Sometimes it's better to cut your cable and run before it.


A fellow mariner

Re: And the Sea shall grant each man new hope

[tspencer227.livejournal.com]

Thanks Gerin.....and all of you, for that matter....I'll be ok, but you all know how I get sometimes.

[jon5k.livejournal.com]

Hang in there man... and enjoy that Capt. Morgan =)

......like a bad habit

[(Anonymous)]

Drop her dude. 99% of all women are nuts......just consider yourself lucky to find out now. At least you got some, right?